Saturday, May 26, 2012

Home again, home again


At the computer handover ceremony at the Queen Salote School of Nursing

Day at the beach at Pangaimotu island

Starfish


One last time at the Blowholes



Sunset at Vava'u
We left Tonga on Mayu 23rd, and it is back to "reality" here in Salt Lake.  While it is really great to see and be around my family, I am not so sure about Salt Lake.  I have been going through the "culture shock" of returning to the culture here--large supermarkets with every available food, tatood, pierced and immodestly dressed people, and rare smiles, hellos, or even eye contact.

I will have to remember some of the many positive things I have learned from the Tongans, things like smiling, making eye contact, saying hello, saying thank you, and looking out for others. The love I have felt in Tonga these past three years is incredible--I need to be more like them. 

Sunday, May 20, 2012

Tonga--Count your Blessings!

It is a rainy day here in Tonga.  On Tongatapu, the main island, we have had rain and overcast skies almost every day.  It is even a little cool, especially coming back from warm Vava'u.  I am sitting outside right now in a sweatshirt, to keep warm.  It has been much more rainy and cool than the last two years I was in Tonga.

We were in Vava’u most of the week.  The Vava’u island group is to the north, making it much closer to the equator and much warmer.  It was pretty hot all week, and being hot and sweaty was the norm.  I love Vava’u—mostly because of the nurses and people there. I feel very close to Meliame, the Sister in charge of the entire island.  On Monday we got to help a little baby be born, which always makes me happy.  On Wednesday, we went out with the nurses on the boat to Hunga, the farthest island from the main island of Vava’u, and stopped at three other islands on the way back to see the people and take blood pressures and check blood sugar levels.  On the way “home” we stopped at a beach to swim, and also went to an ocean cave where we also swam.

Also during the week, as I came out of our hostel, a Tongan couple pulled up to the curb.  It was Toa BYU’s parents!!  Toa BYU turned one on Thursday, and they invited us to her birthday party.  That was really fun too—cake, Tongan food, and dancing.  Yes, her name is really Toakase BYU.  They named her after us—we helped with her delivery last year.  They even called the radio station and had “Happy Birthday Toakase BYU!!” announced for all the listeners to hear.

I also checked on baby Brigham, the little boy that I helped deliver the first year, whom we named.  He and his mom and dad had moved from Vava’u to Tongatapu.  We flew back to Tongatapu from Vava’u on Friday afternoon.  Saturday morning we did blood pressure and glucose checks in the market.  Somehow I knew I would see Brigham and his parents there.  I was not at the market for long, though.  First, I went with one of our students to the airport, where I sat with her until she got on the plane to head home.  Then, I headed to the market.  I was only at the market for a short time when I saw Angelia, baby Brigham’s mother! I ran over, and there was Brigham, now two years old, and very cuddly.  Brigham’s dad was working, but they all stopped by our house later, and we, plus this year’s BYU students, all got to meet Frances Drake Brigham Young Tuitakau.  He turns two May 20th.

Today was church.  Oh—to back up.  The Saturday we were kayaking in Vava’u, there were three men, in white shirts and ties, sitting at a restaurant right by the area where we put the kayaks in the water.  As I was one of the last to leave, I started a conversation with them.  One was the Area Authority Seventy for Tonga, and another the bishop of the Liahona first ward.  He asked us to sing at church in his ward today, so we were prepared.  He also asked me to speak, once we got to church, so I got to do that too.  Then, after Sunday School he asked our group to do a fireside between 5 & 6pm for the 15-19 year olds, on the importance of education.  The students were the ones who did this, since the other instructor and I had already spoken in sacrament meeting.

Even right now I can hear the Tongans singing a hymn.  I love the Liahona campus—it feels safe, and often there is singing drifting across the campus, hymns usually.  Today in church the hymn was “Count your Blessings”.  I have never heard it sung like the Tongans do—with feeling—helping me to know I really am blessed, especially to come here, to get to know and love the Tongan people.

Women weaving at one of the outer Vava'u islands

With Emiline, the nurse practitioner at Vava'u


Mom and baby that we helped during labor and delivery (Vava'u)


Our group ant the kids we screened at a primary school in Vava'u

Tuesday, May 15, 2012

Vava'u


We spent the last week in Tongatapu, going to the hospital for clinical.  While I think it is “fun” to learn about another culture, we did additional fun things like an island tour, and a dinner and show (dance) at the Tonga cultural center on Thursday night.  I didn’t eat, though—I have had Tongan food before and didn’t want to spend the money for dinner.

On Friday we went by plane to Vava’u.  We will be here for a week.  Saturday morning we did blood pressure and glucose screenings in the market place.  In 2010 when we came; we did 92 screenings in the market place.  Saturday we did a198.  It was the day before mother’s day and the market was PACKED!  I wish I would have thought about that—we are going out to the islands on Wednesday and I only brought 250 glucose test strips—we only have 50 or so left for our island testing.  The rest are on Tongatapu.  I will have to bring more next year, even if we don’t use them.

Saturday afternoon we went kayaking to Tonga Beach.  It is about four miles away.  It was a beautiful day, and we had a good time.  There were not enough double kayaks to rent, so I ended up on a single kayak by myself.  On the way back, two of the girls got really far behind on their kayak.  The girls on the kayak behind me asked if they were okay, to which they yelled “NO!”.   I rowed back and found their kayak capsized and full or water, out there in the ocean.  My little kayak would not hold them, and to make a long story short, they ended up swimming at least a mile with me right by them, rowing, towing their upside down kayak, and at times, having them hold on for a little rest.  When we finally got to a beach after an hour of this, the owner of the kayak rental FINALLY came looking for us.  It turns out that they forgot to put the plug in, causing the kayak to fill with water. 

One thing that was good was that the girls who this happened to were our strongest swimmers, and also girls who did not panic.  We also all had life jackets, if needed (they thought it was harder to swim with life jackets, than without, but I was right there with them if needed).  I was also really thankful to be back there far enough to “rescue” them, and I was one of the better rowers.  Although it was a difficult situation, we got through it.

Yesterday was mother’s day here in Tonga.  We went to church at the ward here, and the girls made Debbie, the other instructor at I, dinner.  Today we had our first day at the hospital.  It was good to see all of our Tonga nurse friends again; I feel so close to them, and am glad to be there again.  We did get to help with the birth of a baby, a little girl.  Tomorrow we are going back to the hospital, and in the afternoon, to a school to do eye exams, physical assessments, and lice checks on the kids there. 

Sunday, May 6, 2012

On Tongan Time

Our group on the first day of clinical

The Tongan nursing students practicing their song for the commissioning

Melanie, Carlie and one of the nurses and nursing students

Mike listening to breath sounds and Hanna taking a blood pressure

The ferry we took

Becca taking a blood sugar

Carlee hanging out with the kids

Vanessa taking a blood pressure

Melanie at the Cliffs of Insanity

The Maui arch

Brittany taking a blood pressure

Jared taking a blood sugar; Brittany, Melanie & Carissa are also in the picture
We arrived in Tonga last Monday.  We went to the nursing school and hospital on Monday afternoon, and then went to Viaola hospital on Tuesday, Wednesday, and Thursday.  On Friday the School of Nursing and new Emergency Room and clinics were put into service, and they had a "commissioning ceremony".  It was a big deal--the nursing students had singing practice all week just to get ready for it.  However, we already had our trip to Eua planned, including pre-paid nights at the Hideaway there, so we needed to get to Eua (we didn't know about the commissioning ceremony when we planned things).  The plane broke down, so we took the other option--the ferry.
The sea was rough.  We were in the larger ferry, and it would have been worse in the smaller one, but the large one was bad enough.  Even with anti-nausea medication ahead of time, I "tossed my cookies".  I was very happy to see land, and they were happy to see us as well--our ferry carried a bus that they had been working hard to get to Eua, for the people here to use.  They had dancers and a lot of people at the dock celebrating.
Eua is beautiful.  It is home to the only national park in Tonga.  Yesterday we did a health fair in the market, and then went on a tour of the rock garden, Maui arch, and to see the 800 year old Banyan tree.  Today was church--in Tongan.  The people were warm and friendly--evidently they don't have many Palangis (white people) come to church there.

The plane is supposed to be fixed, and tomorrow we will be headed home--unless it really isn't fixed--then maybe it will be another boat ride.